How we’ll work together.

Because who doesn’t want to free themselves of their shackles, and soar like an eagle?

The benefits of working with me:

  • I get it. Sure, I have the qualifications but I’ve also been where you are and lived it through my own long, difficult struggles with alcohol, ADHD and anxiety.

  • I distil complex ideas from across many disciplines + decades of knowledge into easy-to-understand actions and learnings.

  • The tools, knowledge and a plan to support you navigate life, stress, work, relationships, social situations, whatever your challenges are.

  • I use a trauma-informed, strengths-based, person-centred approach. In other words, what works for one person doesn’t work for another, because you are unique!

  • A compassionate, non-judgemental and no BS approach. I know how hard this stuff can be - especially where there are feelings of shame and failure.

Everything I suggest to my clients is something I have first-hand experience of, not just an academic understanding.

“Faye’s lived experience was the thing that attracted me to her as a coach. She has a lovely friendly and accepting manner.

I didnt feel judged, ashamed or spoken down to. Her approach matched my personality well.“

t, nsw - female, 50s, business owner

Integrative | Holistic | Evidence-based |

Integrative | Holistic | Evidence-based |

What’s involved in the coaching process

Practical tools and resources

You’re going to need your own unique set of tools, tips and tricks for success. We call it your toolbox. I have a large bank of resources from over the years for you to tap into in dealing with cravings, relaxation, mindset tricks, socialising, nutrition - basically all the facets across your life - enabling you to build a steady foundation to make it easier to make the changes you want.

I’ve seen and tried a lot, as have my clients and colleagues, so you’re going straight to what’s tried, tested and most effective.

Support

We all need to be heard, seen and to share what is going on in our lives. Coaching isn’t counselling - I’m here to keep you on track with your goals much like a sports coach would keep you on your game - but much of what’s currently happening in your life may be contributing to where you are at. And it’s often really hard to see when we’re immersed in it.

I’m here to support and guide you (if you want that) so you have a shoulder and an ear while we work on how you get where you want to go - whether it’s with ADHD, alcohol or anxiety.

Accountability

If you opt for the premium coaching package you will get daily accountability from me, via email, enabling you to check in when things are going well - which is super motivating for keeping you on track - and to hold you steady when things might not be going so well, and you’re having a wobble. (Wobbles are part of the process).

If you opt for other options with me, I ‘ll check in with you and provide you with accountability during our next session together.

Your biggest cheerleader

You are going to be achieving something absolutely ah-mazing! You deserve alll the high fives and motivation in the world!

Seriously though, change is the hardest and I will be cheering you on all the way for your successes; big and small. They ALL matter on your journey to taking back the power in your own life!

Networks

As a prolific learner and relationship builder, I have extensive networks in all the areas I practice. This means should you need support from medical professionals, other mental health professionals, nutritionists, body-based therapists, assessments/diagnoses etc I can point you in the right direction.

FAQS

  • As I have qualifications across a few different areas - psychology, coaching and counselling - I use my knowledge from all of the disciplines.

    I predominantly practice as a coach but in our work together often clients may become aware of certain parts of their lives/history that might require deeper exploration and if that’s something they would like to do I’m most happy to move into therapeutic work.

  • Great question! In Australia, these terms can be used somewhat interchangeably in everyday conversation, but they refer to professionals with distinct roles and qualifications. Here's a simplified explanation of the differences:

    Coach: A coach typically focuses on helping individuals set and achieve specific goals in their personal or professional lives. They provide guidance, motivation, and strategies for improvement but do not delve into mental health issues or provide therapy.

    Counsellor: Counsellors offer support and guidance to individuals facing various life challenges, such as relationship issues, grief, stress, or career concerns. They help clients explore their feelings and develop coping strategies.

    Therapist: This is a broad term that can encompass both counsellors and psychotherapists. Therapists help clients address emotional and psychological issues, improve mental well-being, and develop coping skills.

    Psychotherapist: Psychotherapists focus on deep exploration of a person's thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. They often work with clients on long-term issues and aim to bring about lasting change through various therapeutic approaches.

    Psychologist: Psychologists have advanced degrees in psychology and are trained to assess and treat a wide range of mental health issues using evidence-based therapies. They may specialise in areas like clinical psychology or neuropsychology.

    Clinical Psychologist: Clinical psychologists specialise in the assessment, diagnosis, and treatment of psychological disorders. They often work in clinical settings and are licensed to provide therapy for mental health conditions.

    Psychiatrist: Psychiatrists are medical doctors who specialise in mental health. They can prescribe medication, offer therapy, and diagnose and treat mental illnesses. They often work with individuals who may need both medical and psychological treatment.

    It's important to note that these definitions can vary slightly depending on the specific qualifications and regulations in Australia. It's advisable to research the specific credentials and expertise of the individual you are considering.

  • No, coaches and counsellors are not yet eligible for these (although this is likely in future).

    Many of my clients prefer that their information will not be available on their medical record - a mental health disorder diagnosis is required to access the MHCP - and there are potential legal, professional and other implications to be aware of so you can decide which option is right for you.

    You can read my blog discussing the pros and cons of MHCPs, here.

    The cost of seeing a counsellor/coach is usually around the same as the out of pocket gap fee when seeing a psychologist.

  • Sure do! For NDIS, as long as you’re plan or self managed and our work together supports you in your goals, we’re good to go!

    Please note, that it is your responsibility to make sure that the services you claim under NDIS are eligible for reimbursement, covered by your funding, and claimed under the correct category. If unsure, your support coordinator or LAC can provide guidance.

    For Access to Work clients, you can apply for things like ADHD Coaching with up to £65,000 GBP for supports to help you maintain employment. For more information: https://www.gov.uk/access-to-work/eligibility

    Contact me: faye@fayelawrence.com.au to discuss payment arrangements/invoicing.

  • It’s possible. If coaching services are related to your work performance then you may be able to claim them on your tax return.

    Your accountant will be able to advise. Self-education expenses (to which coaching falls under) can be claimed by employees or businesses if there is a significant focus on increasing income-earning capacity, workplace strategies etc.

    Work-related challenges are often a critical part of coaching with my ADHD clients.

  • Over Zoom. I have clients from UK, Australia, Canada, NZ and USA.

    I hold sessions in evenings and Saturdays to accommodate international time zones and my clients’ busy schedules.

    I also operate from Omega Wellness Centre in Brisbane, multidisciplinary practice as part of an integrative team and offer face to face appointments there.

  • That’s incredibly dependent on each client; their history, their presenting concerns, and any complexity. For many clients, and in my own experience as a client, feeling supported in itself goes a long way, but generally speaking to make lasting changes it’s likely you’ll need around 3 months with fortnightly sessions.

    This gives you time to integrate and apply what we’ve discussed, while maintaining momentum and accountability. Like a gym membership, it can be all too easy to put sessions off, particularly when behaviour change gets hard.

    Making the commitment to yourself by booking in advance is likely to drive the most positive outcomes.

  • No, you don’t. If you’re like so many of us, you’ve probably been on and off of the alcohol-free path for a while. Research shows this is many, many years for a lot of people, decades even.

    I work with you where you’re at. We don’t have to do the ‘forever’ thing if that’s not where you want to go. You might want to have a break, you might want to cut back. We’ll talk about your goals and go from there.

    If you’re unsure book a connection call and we can talk about the process there.

  • No, not at all. Many people want to explore whether ADHD is a possibility for them by learning more, finding out what’s involved in and whether they even want to seek a diagnosis. There’s also often a long waiting period involved to go through the process.

    Many neurodivergent people are now self-identifying. Clients may have had a child or parent or sibling recently been diagnosed which - due to the high level of heritability in neurodiversity - means family members will likely begin to question their own histories and experiences through that lens.

    If you feel your executive functioning needs some bolstering, that’s fine too! No dx necessary.

  • It’s a great question, but one that’s almost impossible to answer.

    Clients may have done well while we’ve been working together and either continue that, or not. I may not know.

    Clients may not be at the ‘stage of change’ where they are ready.

    Even the best rehabs and facilities in the world often have low success rates because the nature of alcohol dependence is so complex.

    Basically if you think about working with a personal trainer or an exercise physiologist … I can work with you in a very individualised way incorporating your lifestyle, beliefs, provide support and give you the tools and strategies, but I can’t do the work for you. No one can.

    Take a look at the many testimonials from satisfied clients HERE.

  • Yes. The following are outside my scope of practice:

    • Crisis response/24 hour therapy

    • Court mandated therapy

    • People who are actively suicidal (Note: suicidal intent is different to suicidal ideation; many people have thoughts of suicide from time to time, which is different to active planning)

    • Those experiencing acute levels of mental ill-health or addiction that require a higher level of care e.g. rehab/detox/psychiatric support

    If we start working together and during this time it becomes evident that clinical intervention is required, I will recommend additional or alternative support.

    My priority - and duty of care - is always your wellbeing.


    Having undergone much therapy myself over the years (inc. an array of modalities and supports), I’ve experienced the good, the bad and the ugly. I know first hand how damaging the ‘bad’ or ill equipped can be, and how significantly it can impair an individual.

    It’s so important that when you reach for support of any kind, you find what is useful to you by someone suitably equipped and qualified to do that with you, safely. If that’s not me, I will endeavour to refer you to someone I know, trust and believe to have relevant experience that could benefit you.

  • My qualifications, training and relevant experience include:

    Bachelor of Social Science (Psychology), 2017

    Master of Counselling (graduate in 2024), Grad Cert (completed 2022)

    Certified Grey Area Drinking Coach (2021) - personally trained by Jolene Park, integrative practitioner and functional nutritionist

    Accredited ADHD Coach Training, ADDCA USA - (2023)

    Lifeline suicide prevention training (ASIST) 2019

    SMART Recovery Facilitator training (2021)

    Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP) Certification - (underway, 2023)

    Science of Wellbeing, Yale University - (underway, 2023)

    Trauma-informed care for Alcohol and Other Drug Practice, Insight (2022)

    Non-violent communication (2014) - by Marshall Rosenberg PhD

    Additionally, I founded and ran Untoxicated a grassroots peer support charity and personally supported hundreds of people to change their relationship with alcohol.

    Decades of professional and personal development including therapy, counselling, coaching, self-study around trauma, family systems, attachment theory, Taoism, EFT, polyvagal theory and somatic healing, nervous system regulation, shadow archetypes, inner child work, meditation, yoga.

    And lived experience of mental health, addiction, eating disorders, cPTSD, co-dependency, panic and phobias, adverse childhood ex eriences and a late diagnosis of ADHD at 48.

STILL GOT QUESTIONS? LET’S CHAT!

This isn’t your fault, my friend. Really, it’s not. It wasn’t mine either.

But it IS your responsibility because the truth is that no one is coming to save you.

This is your work to do.

I know, it can feel sucky. But you don’t have to do it alone.

Book an appointment.

Yes, you can!